Healing Unconscious Soul Loyalties: A Path to Freedom

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Understanding Our Patterns

Have you ever felt like you're living a life that doesn't truly belong to you? Maybe you’ve experienced repeating patterns that keep showing up, despite your efforts to move forward. Pain that doesn’t make sense, fears that seem to arise out of nowhere, and limitations that feel deeply rooted. If any of this resonates with you, you're not alone. There is a powerful explanation: unconscious soul loyalties.

These loyalties act as invisible threads connecting you to your family history. Without realizing it, you might be carrying emotional burdens, repeating behaviors, or feeling physical pain that stems from generations before you were born. This occurs not from weakness but from love—a deep, unconscious love that binds us to our ancestors through inherited patterns and unresolved trauma.

My Journey of Discovery

I intimately understand this phenomenon. For many years, I struggled with chronic pain. Despite various therapies, doctors, and healing tools, the pain persisted. It wasn’t until I began to explore my family tree—that I truly understood the deeper root of what I was feeling.

In my journey, I found patterns in the women of my lineage. They shared a collective sadness, migration stories filled with heartbreak, and an invisible weight passed down from mother to daughter. Ultimately, I realized I had inherited the same story. I moved to another country for love, carried grief I couldn’t articulate, and battled symptoms no doctor could explain. That grief wasn’t mine alone; it was inherited.

🌿 Why We Struggle to Break Generational Patterns

This struggle is often called being a "double." In transgenerational healing, being a double means you share crucial dates or events with an ancestor—like a birthday close to yours or sharing the same name. When this happens, you may unconsciously assume their unresolved pain. This soul-level connection sheds light on why certain aspects of our life feel blocked or heavy. You might be living parts of their story instead of your own.

Recognizing the Burden

Understanding these hidden loyalties is the first step toward liberation. When you identify and acknowledge them, you can begin to release the emotional weight. This realization doesn’t just bring clarity; it changes everything.

Family Mapping Exercise: Discovering Your Doubles

Would you like to learn how to identify these connections? Here’s a powerful exercise:

Step 1: Locate Your Birth Month

We’ll use the table below to spot ancestors with birthdays that resonate with yours. Locate your birth month to know which column you belong to.

Step 2: Calculate Your 20-Day Window

Next, write down your birth day (ignore the year). Then, count 10 days before and 10 days after. For example, if you were born on July 13, your range is July 3–23.

Step 3: Search the Same Column

Apply the same 20-day window to every month in your column. Using the previous example, check January 3–23, April 3–23, July 3–23, and October 3–23.

Step 4: Identify Your Doubles

Create a family tree including names, birth dates, and significant life events (such as marriages, migrations, illnesses) for as many generations as possible. Any ancestor, whether living or deceased, whose birthday falls inside any of those ranges is your double. Doubles may also share your exact name or be a striking physical resemblance—make note of these as well.

Step 5: Reflect & Release

Now it's time for reflection. Ask yourself: What issues am I facing that remain unresolved? What double had a similar unresolved issue?

Place a hand on your heart and say:

“Dear [name], I honor your journey and lovingly release what is not mine to carry.”

Breathe deeply, allowing the energy to return to its rightful owner. Journal any insights or shifts you notice during this process.

The Journey to Healing

As you observe these patterns, stay open to revelations. You may be surprised by how clearly you see the origins of your struggles and how much lighter you feel by simply recognizing them.

Healing inherited patterns requires time, presence, and compassion. One of the most effective tools I’ve discovered to facilitate this process is Karunac Reiki. In my sessions, I help you energetically identify and release these inherited wounds, enabling you to reconnect with your own soul’s purpose—not the destiny crafted by those who came before you.

This work has profoundly transformed my life. I believe it can transform yours, too.

If you are ready to explore your own soul loyalties and begin releasing what no longer serves you, I invite you to book a Karuna Reiki session with me. Until July 15, 2024, you can enjoy 15% off with the code KARMA15.

You deserve a life that is free, whole, and connected to your truth. Your ancestors are not your prison; they are your roots. Embrace your roots, and like a tree reaching for the sky, you can grow in a new direction.

With love,

Veronica